the first time i was with him, he was stinky, limp, bland..one day, i had bo for like two seconds around him, as it was hot af out. he was consistently smelly. i went to put deodorant on, and now he tries to make fun of me for being a stinky person and is just super degrading in general...wayyy tooo many guys i know completely lack self-awareness and expect ten times more than they give, s exually and otherwise.