Most guys are so degrading and want to subjugate & diminish women. I started realizing I was a lesbian when I heard a guy say "if she wants someone to care about her feelings, not to degrade her, and to be lovey dovey, she might as well date women instead." .......mm. Yes please. I've been adapting into one since. It's safer, & more satisfying physically and emotionally. Hallelujah.