I dislike my friend that uses me to get what she wants. she will only ask me to go out with her if it is somewhere she wants to go. there is always an alterior motive and there is always some guy that is going to be at the place we go. But IF i WANT to go somewhere she won't go, makes excuses. It is all about her. And we are in out 40's! She is a liar, maniupulative, acts friendly to get her way, very promicuous, always cheating when married but denies it. Also gravitates toward loser men